To be successful you must be able to articulate EXACTLY what you want. Identify EXACTLY what stops you from getting it, and then articulate EXACTLY what you are going to do about it. And then DO it.
It’s that simple, but just because it’s simple doesn’t mean it’s easy. You will have to work hard to get what you want. But if you REALLY want it and are prepared to work hard to get it, then success is yours for the taking.